Monday, March 10, 2008

Emotional Management and Positivity

It is not 'Something' or 'someone' who is making us feel positive or negative, but it is our 'acceptance' or 'non acceptance' of something or someone, which is making us feel positive or negative.

It isn't the world but the quality of our response to the world (acceptance or non acceptance) that determines the quality of our emotions.

Next time we feel disturbed with a negative emotion, instead of asking who or what is disturbing us, we will examine who or what we are resisting (not accepting) that is causing this disturbance in us. We will replace resistance (non acceptance) with acceptance, and the negative emotion will turn into a positive one.


Emotional management begins by stopping to blame that 'something' or 'someone' and starting to take the responsibility to respond to life with 'acceptance' .

Actions follows positivity.

Why do we react ? We react because we desire one thing and not another. Reactions are result of identification with negativity and dislikes.

If we just revolve around our likes and dislikes, actions and reactions , desires and rejections all our life. It means we have not learned in life .We have not moved up or progressed by an inch.

This positivity has to be expressed in every situation whether it is an exam,
a human relationship, social living or reclusive living.

It has to be experiential understanding of the process that leads to self-development and infuses one with contentment, peace and tranquillity.

We go through various experiences ,some good ,some bed . Whenever we react,
it is bad experience and whenever we accept and act, it is positive experience.

If We want to succeed in life , we must focus on positivity and acceptance.

*** "If We want to succeed in life , we must focus on positivity and acceptance."

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